7. Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood.

  • When we listen with the intent

to understand others,

rather than with the intent

to reply,

we begin true communication and relationship building.

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  • Seeking to understand takes

kindness;

seeking to be understood

takes courage.

Effectiveness lies in balancing the two.

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